Am I an 18 year old loser?

this is so sweet! you're eighteen, your life is ahead of you, no it does NOT mean you're a loser, it means nothing in the wider scheme of things. I know plenty of successful hot adult males who weren't relationally active during high school OR college. In fact it makes them more attractive to women as it shows some self control and pickiness! There is such a thing as having TOO much experience and a name for yourself. Better to wait for the right girl to come along...cliche, but true. As for the families asking constantly if you have a girlfriend, well thats just an obligatory question, comes as natural as saying 'hello', it'll figure that much on their caring scale too, they won't be analysisng you or anything. Just say you're holding open a vacancy for the right one. As for any loser, they guy who typed 'yes' underneath...now thats a loser ;)